So have you got your true love or are still in the process of search?
Relationships are in trend these days, it’s hard to find a person who’s single or is happy being one. Not just adults but kids too are following this trend being inspired by their surroundings. So, why is it? Why all the people are getting into relationships? Is it for love? Are they seriously falling in love or are falling out of it? Well by looking at couples nowadays one feels that love is nowhere to be found. They actually try to pretend their togetherness but in real they can’t stand one another.
People these days are just getting into relationships because they are scared, not of anybody but of their own self. They don’t like being alone and that’s when they end up with people who make them feel worse than being just alone. People don’t take pleasure in solitude, which doesn’t mean ending up all by themselves, it only means discovering your own self, your own hidden capabilities. But no we are more concern about others, we focus more on their lifestyles than improving ours.
Getting into relationships is like a competition, it’s like ‘if my friend is with someone why can’t I?’ And that’s when Cupid feels like killing himself because in such a helpless situation he only finds peace in death. With this ‘why can’t I?’ attitude people even get ready to settle with something less than what they actually deserve. Those who once believed in fairytale romance end up with something as temporary as this. And then they break up which is also known as the period of transition or the period of knowing your worth, learning from your past mistakes for a better future. But no. It starts with being alone, by shedding tons of tears, listening to sad songs, trying to commit suicide but people still feel unsatisfied so they do something more dangerous they again get into a relationship with someone. Now that’s brave! And this process goes on.
People are happy by making their lives miserable with such a temporary attachment. Brave are those who are happy and single in this cruel world where people are ready to settle with anyone just to say they’ve something. Brave are those who are aware of the fact that true love is not about having a gf or bf but it’s about being grateful about everything in life. It’s about loving your parents and friend, because no love is greater than theirs. It’s about being with someone who uplifts you, who makes you become a better person and most importantly it’s about YOU
“Settle if you must, but don’t ever compromise with your self-respect.”
Posted in Brain Food by Meenu Lokwani.